One of the most emotionally charged decisions in any divorce is the question of the family home. For many people — especially parents — keeping the house feels like the right thing to do. It represents stability, continuity, and a sense that not everything has to change at once. But wanting to keep the house and being able to keep it — financially and strategically — are two very different things.

In a recent episode of The Divorce Circle podcast, host Sabeena Bubber, Mortgage Broker with Xeva Mortgage sat down with Pawan Rai, a highly experienced family lawyer based in Surrey, B.C. and a partner at WLG Lawyers. Pawan specializes in helping women navigate difficult divorce situations, with a significant focus on the South Asian community.

Divorce is one of the most emotionally and financially devastating events a person can go through. It is a time characterized by massive upheaval, logistical nightmares, and intense emotional pain. Yet, it is exactly during this period of maximum stress that you are expected to make some of the most consequential financial decisions of your life.

Divorce doesn't just break a marriage; it often shatters your self-image. When the life you planned falls apart, it is common to feel fragmented, stuck in survival mode, and unable to trust yourself or others. Many high achievers try to speed through the pain, hoping to reach the "next thing" as quickly as possible. But what if rushing the process is exactly what keeps you stuck?

Moving in with a partner is an exciting milestone. It often feels like the natural next step in a serious relationship. However, what many couples fail to realize is that in many jurisdictions, simply living together for a certain period of time triggers massive legal and financial liabilities. 

When a marriage ends, the default assumption for many people is that they need to hire an aggressive lawyer and prepare for battle in family court. Television and movies have conditioned us to believe that divorce is inherently a courtroom drama. However, the reality is that litigation is often the most destructive, expensive, and emotionally draining way to separate.

Are you quietly questioning your relationship? You are not alone. Many high-functioning, successful individuals find themselves stuck in "relationship limbo"—the exhausting mental loop of wondering whether to stay and rebuild, or leave and start over.

In a recent episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, I sat down with Dr. Maryam Zeineddin — a family physician with over 20 years of clinical experience, founder of Zili CARE, and one of the most compelling voices in Canadian preventative health — to unpack the real connection between hormonal changes, chronic stress, and the decision to separate.

When navigating a divorce, most people are hyper-focused on the immediate financial fires: dividing assets, calculating spousal support, and figuring out who keeps the house. But what happens if the unexpected strikes after the ink is dry on your settlement?

Divorce marks the end of a marriage, but it doesn’t automatically sever all legal and financial ties. One of the most overlooked—and potentially costly—aspects of divorce is updating your estate plan. Failing to do so can have devastating consequences, potentially overriding your divorce settlement and creating chaos for your loved ones.

Do you have to sell your home after divorce? Discover how a reverse mortgage can help you access your home equity, pay off debt, and stay in the home you love. Learn the truth about reverse mortgages.

Big conversations are coming to The Divorce Circle. Behind the scenes, we’ve been busy recording powerful conversations with experts who are helping people navigate one of life’s most challenging transitions — separation and divorce.

Divorce is more than a legal process; it’s an emotional journey. An empowerment coach shares how to rebuild your identity, energy, and direction after divorce and emerge stronger than ever before.

Wondering if you can qualify for a mortgage after divorce? An accredited mortgage professional shares expert tips on how to navigate the Canadian mortgage landscape and reclaim your financial independence.

Thinking of taking your divorce to court? A top Vancouver litigator explains why it’s a financially and emotionally devastating process and what you should do instead. Save yourself time, money, and heartache.

A divorce coach can be your secret weapon for saving money on legal fees. Learn how a coach can help you navigate the legal process, get organized, and make smarter financial decisions with confidence.

The holidays can be tough during a divorce. Registered Clinical Counsellor Alyson Jones shares expert advice on how to talk to your kids, minimize conflict, and find peace in this holiday survival guide.

Don't let financial pitfalls derail your future. Financial expert Seth Allen reveals the red flags to watch for in your divorce settlement and the first steps to take to protect your wealth.

Protect your financial future during divorce. Expert Seth Allen shares strategies for asset division, avoiding investment mistakes, and rebuilding your wealth with a solid financial plan.

Learn how to navigate the challenges of life after divorce, from co-parenting and blending families to balancing career and new love. Expert Jen Murtagh shares her insights and advice.