One of the most emotionally charged decisions in any divorce is the question of the family home. For many people — especially parents — keeping the house feels like the right thing to do. It represents stability, continuity, and a sense that not everything has to change at once. But wanting to keep the house and being able to keep it — financially and strategically — are two very different things.

In a recent episode of The Divorce Circle podcast, host Sabeena Bubber, Mortgage Broker with Xeva Mortgage sat down with Pawan Rai, a highly experienced family lawyer based in Surrey, B.C. and a partner at WLG Lawyers. Pawan specializes in helping women navigate difficult divorce situations, with a significant focus on the South Asian community.

Divorce is one of the most emotionally and financially devastating events a person can go through. It is a time characterized by massive upheaval, logistical nightmares, and intense emotional pain. Yet, it is exactly during this period of maximum stress that you are expected to make some of the most consequential financial decisions of your life.

Divorce doesn't just break a marriage; it often shatters your self-image. When the life you planned falls apart, it is common to feel fragmented, stuck in survival mode, and unable to trust yourself or others. Many high achievers try to speed through the pain, hoping to reach the "next thing" as quickly as possible. But what if rushing the process is exactly what keeps you stuck?

Big conversations are coming to The Divorce Circle. Behind the scenes, we’ve been busy recording powerful conversations with experts who are helping people navigate one of life’s most challenging transitions — separation and divorce.